Posted: Jul 24, 08 7:07am

I would like feedback from you ladies. Have you read Nancy Friday's book entitled "Women On Top"? It was written several years ago. I have a long-held fantasy of being a male sexual sub to a woman/women. I don't mean leather, S/M, pain or anything like that (that's up to each individual). I mean being relatively equals in a given relationship through communication, activities and so on. However, sexually the male is submissive and the woman is in control. He must meet her demands and fulfil any whims and wishes she might have at any time.

Having someone at your sexual beck and call has obvious benefits. You don't have to worry about the "no, you first honey" niceties of sex; it's all about your pleasure, and your pleasure alone. Something happens to women during this scenario; they start suggesting things they wouldn't dare during "normal" lovemaking. Who wouldn't love a wild woman in his bed?

For example, start by ordering him to do small tasks - get you a drink, fluff up the pillows, give you a foot massage. Don't ask, order. Make it clear that you are the boss and he is not to misbehave or he'll be punished (think of a mild punishment beforehand, like spanking him with your hand or an object or making him do something humiliating like masturbate in front of you or serve you somehow). Try to keep an expressionless face. "No Are you okay?, Did I hurt you?, Are you sure you're enjoying this?" This isn't about him - it's all about you!

Tell him it's up to you to decide what he gets and when, and he has to satisfy you first. Order him to do whatever you'd like. He's you're slave. He has to do every single thing you say. He's now free... to service you.

I know societal norms often place women in submissive roles and men as the aggressors. I think it would be refreshing to reverse the roles.

Any feedback ladies? Would something like this appeal to you?