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Just curious if any of you men actually listen and execute some of the things your women ask you to do. Just seems like most men out there are still poking around in the dark and I don't get it. And women, do you find that you're embarassed to say anything when something goes terribly wrong? I have girlfriends who are all recently single and the stories are endless! Please share.
I would hope so. When we were all just dumb-ass kids and screwing just to screw that was one thing, but as we all get older and smarter and appreciate our friends more (especially if we are sleeping with them) it should be an important factor that relays our respect. ("I'll take a bullet for you", "I'll say I cut that fart", I'll do you like you want to be done".)
Isn't that what friends/partners/boyfriend-girlfriend/fbuddies do? I hope so! I know some people still live in their 20's and haven't figured it out. Hell maybe I'm getting it all wrong!
Good question!!
I am all ears (and eyes as needed). The sounds you make (their quality, volume and timing) when you breathe, talk, purr or scream tell me what I want to know. What I am especially watching and listening for is that moment when your voice and/or body language say, "Ooooh. Now THAT gets to me! Gimme some more of that right there."
By the way, the thrill of that is not just knowing I am "playing the instrument well to make great music." It's tempting, but wrong, to treat your orgasm as my achievement.
I love helping you get to your deep pleasure center, because when you show me what you really crave, you are being your most open and genuine self. Orgasm, and the run-up to it, are the most pure and honest moments we have.
Authenticity is one of my issues. I came from a time and place and community where people did not often show how they really felt, certainly not women with their sexuality. When you undo your buttons or untie the robe belt or show up with no bra under that silk top, you are trusting me enough, or loving me enough, to show me what you have been hiding or saving for just the right time, place and man.
Of course, I am 62 and an XY. We learn a little more slowly than you XXs. (God help us!)
Thank you for restoring my faith in men.
No Barry...you're getting it all right. And I ALWAYS admit when I cut a fart too. It's written all over my face anyway.
I do talk & I do listen.....I can't imagine anyone not.......unless it is a 1 time thing & not in relationship....Even then, I would try to do you right, or I guess I should rephrase that (do the woman right I am with).
why wouldn't a real man want to know how to satisfy a woman
Yes, to learn to please a woman is to intensify the way the woman pleases the man.
