I agree totally, love to look at them young and buff, but I want a man. I want a grown-up man, one that knows who he is and what he wants....and he should want me!

Yes, definitely. Not really young as in my sons' age, but a few years younger. Someone old enough to relate experiences with but young enough to still have a sense of adventure. I'm 52 but with one exception my interests have been men in their mid- to late 40s.

I'm really not, but my singles personals profile seems to attract a load of 20something year olds that think that my life won't be complete until I "give them a try" LOL.

For me..I've always gone for men who are older than me.

When I was younger, I loved being with an older woman (see my thread "Port of Call" in Erotic Sex group). It is a pretty true story from my life. Now that I am older and in middle age, I find myself attracted to women mostly in my age group, however, I find often some women in their 60's I am very much attracted to. I have a daughter who is 21. I really do not want someone her age. It would not feel right.

Umm... yeah, I saw that. And spent much of the day fanning myself among other things.

Damn hot flashes!!!

Well, I see you live in the PI, a place that holds many fond pre HIV memories. I got a story or 2 to write about Olongapo City lol. Thank you by the way, your words are kind.

I dated a younger man a couple times (11 yrs younger). He was fabulous, we got along great. Then he said he thought about it and basically would be using me for sex and companionship. That kind of sealed the deal for me. I don't want that to happen again, so younger men are out for me. I thought I could continue just a friendship with him, but that's too hard. Why do younger men pursue us older women only to do that???