Posted: Sep 21, 08 5:44pm

Thanks you guys. Thanks TBD. Thanks for providing me with a place where I am not necessarily an anomaly. A place where my deepest thoughts and opinions don't have to remain so. Thanks for making a place where I can ask any question from the deepest recesses of my mind and actually have them answered openly and honestly, even humorously. Since I have been here, I have learned more about myself, the minds of women (though still not completely), the fraility and strength of manhood, and about life in general. I've always knew but have verified that men and women are delightfully different. I already knew that people hide their true self behind facades in order to protect their self esteem and sense of self but I've learned that given the right outlet and opportunity people are willing to be open and to be vunerable. The common thread that brings us here together also makes that openness possible. We all have our ideals of how things should be and they vary, sometimes greatly. I don't agree with everything I read here and I don't expect everyone to agree with me. I know this is not sounding too much like a "Sex Talk" thread but in actuality its all about the "Sex Talk" group and TBD itself. I am a very sexual person. Sometimes I feel stunted not being able to express my sexuality as openly as I would wish. But that is polite society for you. I like talking to you all about sex and related topics. I have had to re-examine some of my long held views. Others are stronger than ever. For example, I don't think that a husband and wife have to know every little detail that goes on in each others life. I know there are those of you that do. However, that's just life. Because we are all different, we won't all have the same ideals and beliefs. I find quite few of the women on this site attractive, looks-wise and sexually. I may or may not have fantasies about them. Does that make me a bad person because I am a married man? I think not. The day I got married I didn't become blind, deaf,and dumb. The same thing that attracts me to my wife will attract me to other women. What I do about that attraction is what makes the difference I think. I flirt. Not as much here because I am still getting to know people and boundaries here. Its just fun to me and enhances my libido. I say all of this to say, I enjoy the freedom and openness that "Sex Talk" of TBD provides. Its more open than I could be with just about anybody offline except for my wife. So here's to you "Sex Talk" and TBD. Thanks a bunch.