Yes, I have in the past.... whether it be someone specific or a particular scene in a porno that turned me on... but like you Tony... in the end, it was just the two of us.

;-)

Past experiences and fantasies can make for a fun time. Sometimes it's just nice to "be" with the one you love.

No, my partner is my focus both outwardly and in my thoughts.

I have..when I wasn't really into my partner as I should have been. It helps sometimes.

Tony, for the most part, when im having sex with someone, my focus is completely on them and the things that made me want to have sex with them in the first place.

Yep, me too.

Ive tried it but always seem to remain focused on the one "at hand"... I think I like it better that way. Fantasy is great but the reality is always better....