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Beware the married guy

Posted: Oct 4, 08 1:42pm

Though there is a certain amount of validity to the idea that SOME married guys are constantly on the prowl for extra-marital sex, I feel like I am constantly being judged by that standard. Yeah I flirt. Its all in fun. I get to know the ladies I flirt with well enough beforehand so that they understand that. I don't flirt with ones I just meet. In my job I have to talk to strangers quite a bit, a lot of them women. We will be having a nice, relaxed conversation then I mention I am married and all of a sudden everything gets tense, frigid, and impersonal. Its like they are afraid that at any moment I am going to try to seduce them or that my wife will come up from behind and stab them or something. I suppose there is merit in women being "cautious" around married men. I just feel like I am being maligned for something I am not guilty of. So what am I supposed to do, wear a sign that says "BEWARE. Married man." so they won't talk to me by mistake. Yes I wear my wedding ring 24/7. Oh well. It is what it is. Guess I am mainly just venting.

PS. I got to thinking and it could have something to do with women not wanting to throw away good flirting on an already taken guy.

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shagger

Posted: Oct 4, 08 1:51pm

You can flirt with me anytime you want sweetie. I know you're not serious...and I can use the practice ! LOL

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Tony45

Posted: Oct 4, 08 1:57pm

shagger wrote:

You can flirt with me anytime you want sweetie. I know you're not serious...and I can use the practice ! LOL

Thanks, sweets. ;)

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teachertrish

Posted: Oct 4, 08 1:59pm

the same thing can be said for married women though --- maybe not to the same degree, but still.

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chloemoon

Posted: Oct 4, 08 2:02pm

He He! Tony..you know your a lady killer!

I dont flirt with anyone, so I wouldnt be able to help..sorry :(

ok, ok.. i'll be serious.Im sorry sweetie. You can flirt with me anytime! If people are intimidated by u being married..f**k em! :) ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

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Steve Coli

Posted: Oct 4, 08 2:07pm

chloemoon wrote:

If people are intimidated by u being married..f**k em! :) ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

Is that not the point baby?

I do agree, if they act like that, well, too straight for me.

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Tony45

Posted: Oct 4, 08 2:07pm

chloemoon wrote:

He He! Tony..you know your a lady killer!

I dont flirt with anyone, so I wouldnt be able to help..sorry :(

ok, ok.. i'll be serious.Im sorry sweetie. You can flirt with me anytime! If people are intimidated by u being married..f**k em! :) ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

I am honored . . . (and excited) :)

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Darkweis

Posted: Oct 4, 08 2:09pm

Tony45 wrote:

....We will be having a nice, relaxed conversation then I mention I am married and all of a sudden everything gets tense, frigid, and impersonal.....

I used to get the opposite effect from women, they seemed very relaxed when I was married but now I mention Im NOT married and they tense up and keep a safe distance.

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