OMG...after my first I wondered what the hell all the fuss was about. In fact it wasn't till that 10 year relationship (marriage there too) ended that I finally realized it could be GOOD!! Needless to say it's been uphill for the most part since then.

At the time (almost 18) it was the best sex I'd ever had... it only hurt a bit, my boyfriend at the time was very patient and very thorough... was pleasantly surprised to achieve orgasm during penetration (with a couple of others before) and it was in a (then) loving relationship.

Since then, experience and relaxation of any societal and self imposed boundaries have allowed me to explore and express my sexuality to the fullest.

Like with anything, I think ones sex life can only get better... even if it is limited to self pleasure.... practice does make perfect! LOL!!

The first time, I did not get it. I could not really figure out what all the fuss was about. Now, I am really into it. I guess you just need to open your mind and relax and things will be good.

It was the very worst sexual experience of my life. It got better after that first time, then considerably better, then plumeting into horrible, now it's better...much much better.

I was 10 and she was 11. We were in an old playhouse out back of her home. I remember it felt good, but thats about it. Has my sex life gotten better. In the words of a famous politician, "you betcha".

It was, in a word, fantastic. He was older, by about 4 years, and knew exactly what he was doing, and I was very enthusiastic (at least that much hasn't changed). We were in his bedroom, no one else was home, it was raining outside, a warm summer rain. He started slow and easy, but it wasn't long before things heated up quite nicely. We went at it all afternoon and pretty much every chance we got for the next 3 years. As to it being the best I've ever had, let's just say, I have very fond memories . . . ;o)

We were both 17 and both virgins. We each lived at home and had summer jobs. We both called in sick but told our parents we were going to work. I went to her house and we did it...I entered her slowly, and tried to take my time (tho in hindsight I don't think that first time was very long at all!). After that it was like pandora's box. We did it again a few minutes later, then we went to her neighborhood pool and I tried to do it with her in the pool! We couldn't get enough. Being each other's "first" we tried everything...even anal tho that was unsuccessful aside from some tonguing and fingering. It was a pretty hot summer.