Posted: Jul 23, 08 10:48am

HI my names merlin,been married 14 years.i have been maried that long but my wife sleeps with my child who is 10 and sex is unheard of.we used to have agreat sex life at the start then my son was born with reflux,i work shifts so she decided to sleep with him to let me sleep and so it hasnt ever changed.she thinks sex is dirty yet doesnt work i work 45 hours a week,and made bme bankrupt 3 years ago to 30,000 pounds,now she looks money always and im sworn at and given abuse constantly im cosidering leaving her freinds are on her side i have no say,any one in the same boat.