If she trusts herself not to be a victim ever again, KNOWS she would not tolerate mistreatment, she will not attract an abuser. She might join a therapy group to help her become aware of her patterns and give her immediate feedback on anyone she dates.

She may want to have some individual counseling and take a little time for herself to heal....maybe do something for herself to build her self-esteem...and be able to set her boundaries when she sees those red flags

I agree with Isa,and joyce,she needs the time to reflect on what she has been through,and get some help so she doesnt make the same mistake,she probably feels lonely and wants to start a new relationship.but she needs time.

I agree. People who choose and abuser once are at considerable risk of making the same mistake again unless they explore what's going on in professional counseling, either one-on-one or in group therapy. This is definitely worth the time investment.

Oh..most definitely, she must take time some time to heal after such experience. The healing process after such an ordeal takes time; however, as time goes on the wounds will heal. She should know that although time heals all wounds, she will never forget. I was a victim of domestive violence many...many years ago. I never allowed myself to get involved with a man like that again. As you stated, your friend knows that signs of that type of man; therefore, that should help her be able to detect within a very short period of time if someone is right for her or not. After a woman endures such an experience, we become volnerable not only within ourself but it becomes apparent in our demeanor. That is NOT a good thing. Be yourself but don't diplay the pity role because that's what these men look for someone they can take CONTROL of. It's important that she remembers not to rush into anything when meeting a man. She is to take baby steps, not matter how much she may want to be loved. She should get involved in therapy or support group for women of domestic violence.