I know Isadora Allman and Michael Castleman will weigh in on this, and they're the experts. To me, it sounds like ya'll would benefit from couples' therapy.

Good luck to you both. She's a lucky woman to have a husband who still loves and wants her after all these years.

I feel for you I have that same problem ,I'm more into sex then my husband of 18 yrs ,It's hard sometimes,your not alone.

I guess we tired the both of them out! LOL

Hey Lisa,

Wanna hear something funny? sure you do.

About 5 yrs. ago I took my wife to Atlantic city for the weekend.

Feeling frisky we got into it pretty good.the sex was great! I know ,,I was there. LOL Anyway a half hour after we were done she came down with a bad case of vertigo. Thats right! She could'nt even lift her head from the pillow. I had to call for help& when EMS got there they females showed up.

The looks were priceless. Hows that for a true story!

Wow.

WOW is right.

Anyway after that weekend next to nothing.

Steevo after that weekend obviously it sounds like something health related was going on. You said after the change of life this started? Maybe you can sit down and talk to her one on one, not being interested might be health related symptom of something more serious, or a side effect of menopause. Maybe she could go see a doctor...there might be a medication or a diagnosis that would explain or increase her libido.