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Your position isn't crazy. It's shared by many men and women.
I might be crazy but I feel that you don't have to be in love to have sex and having sex with one women doesn't mean you don't love another. I've been married for 40 years and I love my wife but I think if I had a chance I could enjoy sex with another women.
Wife here, My husband and my female friend and lover enjoy sex together when we are together on our nude weekends. We all participate in all sexual experiences. For us love making and having sex are enjoyed all weekend. Having sex or making love with two partners is not a problem. Truth be told, I don't try to separate it, I want to make love to my husband or sometimes just have sex with him and I want to have sex with my lover and sometimes we make love.
Sex has nothing to do with love, just as love has nothing to do with sex.
When we get married the whole love, sex, intimacy issue gets muddled, and having sex with a woman you don't love can feel like a betrayal to the woman you do love.
Each couple has to have a conversation on what constitutes cheating. It's different for everyone.
Making ove to me is you are feeling somethng more than just animal sex whether it be with a spouse or lover. I think you can have sex with your spouse and not be making love, just depends on what you are feeling at the time.
When you are in love with someone the sex is much better. At least I think so.
Theres nothing wrong with a healthy sexual appete.
They are 2 totally separate issues lust and love and feel totally different too during the act of. I prefer either or depending on my mood!
