Men need to realize that foreplay is more than a 6 pack, a few quick rubs and a flick........ good Sex starts hours before.... Women need to realize that Sex should be a little more " Honey, it's 10:00 are you coming up?"

actually over 40 Sex should be less the "I love You" since after years of being together that should not even be an isue anymore and rather do whatever You both can agree upon, do it fast,hard and repeatedly .........but thats just me and what do I know?

men watch porn because it lets them fantasize about other women and types of sex.

It's arousing and the type of things you wouldnt really ask your wife to do.

I agree with you. Unfortunately, many men consider porn a kind of textbook of lovemaking and don't understand that it creates a fantasy world geared to men's dreams of sexual abundance without responsibility. I have nothing against sexually explicit art or video. But porn has become men's single most important teacher of lovemaking and it teaches it all wrong. There's an article in the TBD archive you might discuss with your husband: How Porn Misleads Men About Women's Sexuality. Use TBD search: Porn Misleads Men.

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husbands and wives should be able to ask each other for anything and have fun with it!

IF you have to have a mistress or porn, maybe you and your wife need a sex therapist or some time together.

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there should be less "I love you" after years of being together and it shouldn't be an issue anymore?

fast hard and repeatedly. hmmm.

I"m thinking the first time a kind man honestly stopped and listened to your wife for what she had to say, kissed her softly and told her what she meant to him she would be parting sheets with someone who just wanted to f#$()(

WHy not a healthy combination of both?

And what men need to realize is foreplay is anything that shows you don't take her for granted and don't take advantage of her. (Don't say "I washed the dishes for you.... they aren't just her dishes...) Men need to know that if you screw us all day you're not going to all night. Period.