Posted: Nov 22, 07 11:50pm
A few things to make Your Sex life better.... Just use Your imagination. After all great Sex when Your over 40 is 98% Mental.
1. Remember the beginning - . Often the stresses of everyday life over a long period makes Us forget why We fell in Love to start with. Chances are Your partner is still the same person.
2. Be willing to give more than get - Often people are in it for themselves. Which only ends in disappointment because the other has needs they are trying to fill. If You both do for the other over Yourself all the needs will be met.
3. Love them for who they are, not who You want them to be. You will have less disappointments. It is easier to be Yourself than try to be what You think someone else wants You to be. 4. Learn the difference between Love and Sex. Leave the Love for the twinkle eye candle light dinner. You should already know You love each other , now bang Your brains out. Explore Your fantasies. You have enough problems without Sexual frustration on top of it.
5. Make time for You - Get rid of all the distractions and just enjoy Yourselves. The Job will be there tomorrow, Your kids aren't going anywhere and won't die from neglect for a night. Soccer, softball, bowling and whatever will wait. Do for the two of You. Sex toys are a great prop. 6. Never compare Your Lover with what society promotes. Accept the fact She will never be that stripper at the club and he will never be a Chippendale. Enjoy what You have and Your on Your way to more happiness.
7. Never blame the other for Your unhappiness - Unless they kept You tied up in the closet, chances are You have been where You have chosen to be. 8. Spend more time in bed naked than watching TV. If You can't understand this Your doomed. if You have to watch something watch a good PORN flick
9. Ladies - learn to suck a Golf ball thru a garden hose and he'll never go anywhere else. 10. Guys - Realize that a six-pack and twisting Her nipples is not foreplay and You might be surprised how much more Sex You can get.
11. Be able to watch- a porn movie and enjoy the stupidity of it. It's not about learning to appreciate a porno, but the fact that You can watch and laugh, together. Forget feeling offended...watch one now 14. Mix Up the Sex -One of the mistakes men make is they discover a good spot on Her and then focus on it again and again. "It's important to know what she likes, but also not to be too predictable."
what it all comes down to is ...How important is it really to You?
You can have great Sex or make excuses .......
