Hi Kathie, This is a very good question. For me, it is this very idea that brings me back to whatever I am doing in the present moment and try to look at things from the place where I am in the moment, and try to make the best of that time and the ways in which I choose to view my life from that particular place in time. Because after all, who really knows for sure: that is the beauty and solace of faith, because maybe thats all we really have. I dont necessarily believe this, but, what if thats what God is, is faith!

Exactly, neeraja! Nobody does know for sure, even those who say they know (I've run into a few of those, haven't you?):-)

So that's why I also try to live in the present moment as much as possible. Unfortunately, "enquiring minds want to know" so I'm always pondering the questions and looking for the answers, even though I know it's impossible.

I've often said that I envy those who are positive that they have the answers through their faith, because I figure it must be much easier that way. To just believe what the "church" tells you and not wonder anymore. I'm just not able to do that because of all the inconsistencies in religious dogma.

Anyway, I figure God gave me a brain because s/he wants me to think for myself!

I agree with you Kathie, in that although I know in my heart I probably will never be able to answer these questions, attempting to do so is one of my favorite things to do!

Hi friends, I have wished to give a comment but been busy, so I will do so now. I enjoyed your comments. I wish to add:

What if? You can spend a life time wondering about the "What ifs" and it can take a lot of energy when all you need focus on in any moment is the now...all we truly have is now and in that moment, do the best you can. If your heart loves, then no matter what the "what ifs" are, you are doing exactly what you should be doing at that very moment. Our faith may give us comfort in that moment and also guide us in what is best in that moment, and the thanks and giving of the experience of that moment. But if you live for the future, you miss what you have in the now, if you regret the past--any part of it, you are dwelling there, not in the now, as you cannot change the past, right? What ifs lead to doubts and fears and worries, none of which help much. What are your thoughts? Peace.

God does command us to take one day at a time, so I certainly agree with that. Re: your future . . . what if you're wrong? "Knowing" what will happen after you die is not living for the future. It gives a comfort that alleviates the day-to-day fears and worries.