I wish my husband would be willing to participate in more meaningful converstations. He is well aware of my need for this, but seems unable or unwilling to do this. I feel that we relate on a very superficial level and he is content with this. I'm not, but I have basically accepted that that is the way it's going to be. Very frustrating!!

I always want my husband to plan something for us to do without my having to do anything about it but enjoy it. If I do not ask to do something together, he just stays on the computer and ignores everyone.

I feel so neglected. It makes me want to find things to do without him so I am not waiting around for him. But he is my SO. I want to be doing things with him.

I wish my SO would be a cleaner person around the house. Every time I let him move back in with me, he trashes my place. I care about him, but find myself just giving up on keeping things clean wih him around. I would rather live alone--and it's getting to that point again!