I don't understand what you're asking.

some times we our sitting watching tv,i will start talking an say do you want to play board no i am tired tonight thena couple days later less play a game i don;t feel like it but i do any way

So you're saying you are more accommodating than she is? Just because you want her to be more like you doesn 't make it so I'm afraid.

If you want to play a board game with your girlfriend or do anything out of the ordinary, try making a date in advance and telling her that you've arranged something you hope you'll both enjoy--a little surprise. Then try it. Even if she doesn't care for what you arrange, she may well appreciate the time and effort you invested in arranging it.