Posted: Nov 21, 07 10:23pm
My problem is with my husband and his contact with an old girlfriend!! He got together with all of his friends and his old girlfriend was there, now they have been text messaging back and forth, just about everyday. They'll talk on the phone, but not as much. When I first noticed him texting her, he hid it. Then I noticed the cell phone was always locked, he password protected his account so I can not see the bill. I've told him that it really upsets me, and he knows this, he says they are just good friends, she is married as well. But the only contact they have is when he is at work or I'm not home. Last friday they all went out again, he never asked me to go, but of course when I brought that up, he says he was going to ask me, BUT he never did. I feel like he is so wrapped up with his old girlfriend, that sometimes he treats me like dirt!! We have been married for 19 yrs, and yes he has cheated on me before, and my gut says its happening again. He tells me that I am crazy, just making things up and I'm a Nut job. Since he has been in contact with her, he has moved out twice, just for the weekend, and telling me that I am ruining our family with all my insecurities. My question of course is, with over 200 text messages between the two, and he just gets sneakier, Do you think I'm wrong in thinking they are more than just Friends??
