Sadly, one can't carry on a relationship by oneself no matter how good and loving a husband you are. Let's hope she does miss you and you two can renegotiate a relationship that works better for both of you.

Live where it is best for you. She wants the easy way out. If you are in Fla, she doesn't have to see you. You can't force her to come back, but live where you need to, not where your family is.

I hope venting helps. There is nothing anyone can do but hope for the best. It sounds as if she has her own problems that she had before she met you and the relationship was beyond her capacity to handle. It is a shame people who want to get married in the worst way ... usually do. There is always someone hurt when one person makes a unilateral decision like this.

I agree with Isadora and MiltT. I would also add that if your marriage does end and in the future you fall in love with someone new, don't rush into marriage. When people fall in love, they think with their hormones and not their heads. The hormonally-driven hot-and-heavy period typically lasts 6 months to 2 years. Try waiting 2 years next time. That should give both of you the time it takes to really get to know each other--and think with your heads about the relationship's long-term potential.