Posted: Nov 27, 07 5:48pm

My 41 year old sister just eloped with a man 16 years her junior and I'm the only family member who understands. She says he makes her happy. I just ended a 7-year relationship with a man 10 years my junior. He ended up making me unhappy. Obviously we're both cougars with different outcomes in our relationships. Are there different rules for cougars than those for May-December relationships?