Please tell me your kidding?

That is the most pathetic thing I've ever heard. Might I suggest that you bring this to the attention of TBD staff. And if nothing will be done about it, I will call on all group administrators and bring this childish behavior to their attention. This is something that would never be tolerated on any other community, and for members that are 40+ to get in the middle of something this childish lets me further know that the mentality of the few people here is in question.

I would and have never been influenced whether by email or public forum, be influenced by personal feuds. The decisions I make are my own. That includes friends. I am a grown woman

I have to have a personal beef with you myself to make that call. I am no puppet!

Thank you for the heads up. I will post to my group as well.

I agree wholeheartedly. You simply can't decide who to be friends with based soley on someone elses perception and/or situation. Everyone should be given the opportunity to have their own experiences and make their own decisions.

I'm sorry to hear that there has been a rift amongst you. I hope that everyone can end up playing nicely in the sandbox together again soon. OR, if need be . . . simply play in different sandboxes. ;0)

Wow. All that because that person left of their own free will? That's really sad.

But calling on people to drop out of your groups? That's psycho. Really. Must be exhausting too. OK. I'll follow you leads here. Something has to be done. Bashing in public is one thing. At least you can defend yourself against it. With friends that will help. But this is clearly a coward.

Thanks for the heads up from me as well Zen. I have some great people in my groups and hate for them to fall between a personal feud that could isolate them somewhere down the line.

This would be laughable if it weren't so sad. And all this going on when my daughter almost died!!!??? Were their prayers and well wishes for my child fake? Just postering? Can people actually be that heartless?

What am I thinking. Of course they were.

NO! NO! NO!

Rigor don't you dare think that. Even negative things have positive somewhere near it. God knows the difference between truth and falsehood. He would never allow anything negative toward this precious child.

The only power given to heathens is to place pain upon you. The same pain they hold too close to themselves. Love, friendship, respect attracts love, friendship, respect.

Hold that close. Hold on tight. The ride may be bumpy for a moment. But never long! And we are there!

Max . . . what a fabulous post. I don't know that it could have been said any better, you are such a good friend to Rigor!!!

Rigs . . . Max is so right. Negative things often have a positive side effect. False friends make themselves known, as appears to be the case her, and it IS sad. BUT, the power of TRUE prayer, TRUE friendship, TRUE love won out. Despite the presence of one or more negative people, you and Lilley were surrounded by friends that drew even closer to you in the face of your crisis.

And with that, the only other thing I could say it to repeat Max's last paragraph word for word!

Thanks for that. I really don't care how people may seem around me. I've been around the block a few times. Not my kids. They are my world. And just like any parent, I don't want any harm, in any form, any where near them. I'm just surprised that these people are so callous. I am blessed to have you guys. May it all come back to you!