Depends on the environment:

1 - Happy Hour: My favorite playground. First, you got to dress for the occasion, smell real good.

After that, time to pursue: The smile - I've been told that my smile is the first thing that caught their eye.

The Wow-Bite - When I know we both have solid contact, I mouth the word "Wow", then slightly bite my bottom lip and nod. This sends a confirmation that I like what I see. She gets the message and comes over. Works everytime if theres interest ;-)

Shoulder Flirt - I'm at the bar, she comes and sits next to me, we have a connection, I give the "I'm interested" shoulder nudge. She sends it back.

2 - Grocery Store Flirting Cart Flirting - You keep running to each other in different isles, slow down and make slow lingering eye contact and smile at each other.

Shelf Flirting - I ask for her to pass me something off the shelf. If she says something like "That's my brand too. or So, you cook too?" we have a connection.

Check out Flirting - We both intentionaly make sure we are at the checkout line at the same time. It's the perfect place to talk and make arrangements for a after check out coffee meeting.

I could on, but these are my most common areas of flirting and connecting.

Okay Janet. Time to get out there and start flirting!

~Jonathan~

LMAO ~ oh Jonathan... did I read somewhere that you were a writer? That was very impressive. Wish it were so easy. Maybe you should give lessons. = )

Remember the movie "Hitch" with Will Smith. That's me. I do have people that actually ask to be taught "How'd you do that?"

I'm thinking about starting a group specifically for The Art of Flirting. Tips, tricks, how to setup, how to close the deal, how to over come shyness, and more ;-)

It's just a thought. I get asked a lot on how to do it.

~Jonathan~

Janet... You can do it ;-)

ok, so now that I've had "flirting 101" how do I get them to flirt back?

Hi Janet, I haven't been on TBD for awhile and don't normally flirt on here. But logged on and saw your posting and being on top of the world today.GEE! CAN I FLIRT WITH YOU JANET?

oh yes, please do - I'm thinking I must need the practice

Uhhhhhhhhhhhh, as the Nike logo once proclaimed, "Just do it!"

Flirting is a state of mind, a state of figurative, nonverbal actions, movements and presence...that which your sensuality radiates!

Ya probably got it. So use it!