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If he has a main doctor managing his health the two of you need to have a discussion with him or her. If Viagra is not a good idea, perhaps one of the other erection drugs might be. There are also positions for intercourse which may relieve pressure on him and sex toys used together can become part of your lovemaking. See the MD first and then, if necessary, a sex therapist. Some sort of sex is possible, not necessarily what you had before, but something.
Everybody, well most everybody wants sex. I like sex just as much as the next guy, probably more. You can live without sex. Pour cold beer on it and it will go away.
Yes you can live without sex, but you spend all your spare time thinking about what you are not getting.
Then that creates a problem and thats usually the way it is, one wants it and one dont. I dont have an answer. Each situation and the reason for it may be different.
You beg, barter,badger or bribe the other into marriage counseling so some compromise can be worked out. If s/he feels the problem is only yours then it is. You settle in grudgingly, you keep trying to negotiate, you step outside the relationship or you leave. It's your difficult decision.
It's been almost 6 years for me. Wife got in car accident, which caused all of her past problems to surface. Bad knees,bad hips, 1 lung, C.O.P.D., L-1 to L-6 vertabrea desentagrting, and losing her memory in small doses. Takes enough meds to start a pharmacy. Sex,,, what is it.
