Posted: Aug 19, 08 4:20pm
I mean what can it be. I see some that haven't had anything for months, years even and man that would be really hard. I went about 6-8 months after each of my kids was born. but for an average for my whole 16 years of marriage, i would say i get it at least once a month, there are periods where it goes over 6 to 8 weeks without, then there are the surprises that i get 4 or 5 times in one month. I never know when or where, she choses all that. I try to be romantic, I've told her to initiate when she's in the mood so I don't come off as begging for it all the time. nothing seems to work, it just seems to be on a whim. what hurts the most is when she'll say during the day, you just wait until tonight, then "tonight" comes and she's off to bed to go to sleep. then she'll say "sorry, but "tomorrow" and "tomorrow" never comes. I mean, maybe, I'm just complaining about nothing since I do get something sometimes. but to me, I want to have something more often. I don't want sex because you are supposed to have sex with your spouse. i want to have good sex and I just haven't been able to feel like that's what is happening.
