First of all, keep giving it to her. There is nothing good to be accomplished by not giving it to her.

Then, be glad you at least have that going between you two.

I have to ask, are you having any other kind of sex together? Is it just oral she doesn't like?

Maybe there is a reason. Can you talk to her about it? I know that talking about intimate things can be hard, you have to pick the right time. Usually in bed isn't the best time. For me, when my wife and I are alone in the car, traveling somewhere, we can talk about things we can't seem to talk about in any other situation.

Talk it out, be patient, be supportive. Give her time.

Patient ? 15 long years ? She says it makes her gag .I'm thinking about looking else where . I love fast vehicles ..the ocean ..and SEX In general I love Life !!! I'm forty nine and I'm getting hornerier by the day..Mike

She says oral sex makes her gag, maybe she is not doing it right. The two of you should direct each other in this area and let each other know how it's feeling when you are doing it. Ask her how does she feel about the way it looks and taste? Maybe it's ugly to her and it taste nasty (smile)

Okay, first of all, if she is not used to it, it can trigger the gag reflex. It takes a little practice to get used to it without gagging if u r deep-throating and if u go a long time without doing it, u will need to practice again. a banana is good for practicing on. that gag reflex has to get used to the feeling. let her know it's something important to you, without guilting her, just let her know how much it means to you, and maybe get some books you can read together for ideas . . . maybe she doesn't like your taste, try strawberry lube, or her favorite flavor, maybe the hair bugs her, try shaving it or trimming it way down, off the penis entirely. you need an open dialogue with your wife to determine what it is she doesn't like and if she is willing to try some different things. Also, maybe she would enjoy it more if she did it while you are doing her, ala 69. you can't get if you don't ask. the important thing is that you show concern for her and her feelings when you ask, not for yourself, while letting her know that it is something u really want. remember, no guilt. good luck.

bin there done that....She just doesnt want to do it ..It not fair! my ex loved it so much she did the whole neiborhood.This one wont even try.

You said that she love receiving it but not doing it. Dress it up and play with it in front of her. And, around her breast, neck and face slowly. Talk dirty to her. Make it look attractive because some are really ugly. Does she give you hand jobs?

Try placing a flavor gel she likes on your cock, ( my girl loves grape...and after all that great attention.. I do too! :) Get a cock ring and make it look packaged and ready for her enjoyment! Place it close to her lips, touch them with the tip....break her down slowly and have fun!