I do not even try any more. I travel most weeks so I do not need to confront it. She does not try and I gave up. Sounds like you guys need consuling or a judge. I feel for you dude.

I try, when Im in the mood for rejection.

I doubt it's an affair...I think it's just lack of interest. Sounds similar to my situation. I'll be happy to share war stories with you...

LOL ;-)

Damn it I hear that! I have to demand it! or make appointments. I always try and just get pushed in a corner. What is a lady to do?

Chowda, ten years? That's a long time to be out in the desert. Patients is one thing (and I have the patients of Hercules!). It would seem to me if "it bothers her to no end" that the party is over and time to pack up the party favors and blow out the candles.

You do have choices and options. 1 - Pack up and leave as you have pointed out. 2 - Get a FWB (Friend With Benefits).

However, exploding will put you in a situation that is not worth it and will put in you a lot of unnecessary hot water. Don't get mad, leave and go live your life to it's fullest. Life time fuel at our age is precious. Stop sitting at the light idling your life away and put it in gear. Get out on the road of life and see what's out here. Trust me the view is awesome!

~Jonathan~

One more thing I always tell the hubby ask your friends do their wives still want sex? You should tell them how lucky you are that I'm always ready! But it goes in 1 ear and out the other. Go figuire chowdahead. It's not just a man problem!