(Posted 361 days ago)

Do's and Don'ts:

Hey, it ain't just about you. Turn it around. What would he like to do more with you? When you use confrontation, you often make the other person defensive. When you use creativity, you open the door to discussion.

Say This:

I have a question for you. What can I do to make your life more exciting? I'm asking because I sometimes am getting the sense that we are getting stale. I know you love me and I love you and we have a great sex life but what other kinds of things do you want to do as a couple? Remember when we were young ... well yesterday? We spent every moment together like there was no tomorrow. Now, there may be less tomorrows than we think. If this was out last day on earth, what would you want to do together?