Both my wife and I gained quite a bit of weight, but the thing is, I see her as the person I met and fell in love with, so her weight doesnt matter. besides we have been both working on losing it also. She has lost 15, and me 13...

Good for you guys. your wife is a lucky woman!!!! and both parents are happy with them selfs your kids grow to look at life with a open mind and judge people for the way they are. my hats off to you and your wife.

i hope you did not take my comment the wrong way i was saying love the person regardless of size. the ladys commented on she wasent attracted to her husband and his wieght. me myself if i fell in love with you and married you it was because you make me happy weight only means you are confortable with each other as long as it does not effect your health plus i find couples that are the happiest when they smile and are truely happy and respect each other. if this lady is descused w/ her husband then maybe she should move on because he will only get fatter and he deserves better then that. i would rather be with a chunky man then a hard body because if he treats me right thats all i need. useally it is the other way around. most men complain. and you are a insperation for me because i have been single for 5 years with 3 kids my husband left me bcuz i was fat. and i thought all men were like that and i weigh 150 pounds( i am 3 feet tall though) just kidding . really i am 3 feeet tall.. no i do weigh150 and 5'6 but i rather be single then trying to please a man with my weight. its all about makeing your man happy. Thank you for comment there are a few good men out there.

Darci, Thank you for your straight forward answer. Finally someone with brains and compassion