What would you say in this situation?
Groping, then the missionary position... I want my husband to try something new in bed.


Jobiwan

Jobiwan

(Posted 101 days ago)

Say This:

I agree with Fabulous. Just give it a try and see where the adventure leads. As she said, be sure to make it a positive experience before, during and after, and you might find yourself surprised by the results. (And the further adventures next time!) I don't think men WANT to feel that the responsibility is all theirs. This is love-making- not corporate maneuvering- so have fun and try something new! Hope it works!


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MichaelCastleman

MichaelCastleman Journalist specializing in sexuality...

(Posted Jul 2, 08 6:21pm )

You might consider writing him a note and leaving it where he'll find it. Say something like: I REALLY love you, but.... then lay out your complaint as kindly as possible. Don't put anything on him. Say something like: I'm feeling kinda bored. Then make a few suggestions and ask him to select one of them or more to play with. Writing a note eliminates some of the awkwardness of these conversations. You can take as much time as you want to say exactly what you want to say. Then all you have to ask is: Have you thought about my note?

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