(Posted 120 days ago)

Say This:

There's some ambiguity here -- do you want more, or are you not getting any?

If your husband gets you worked up into a lather, fills your love cavern with his baby gravy, then rolls over and says "night, sweetie", then you may have to take matters into your own hands. Tell him you're not finished and if he wants partial credit, he better help while you make soup. (sorry for using all the technical jargon)

If, on the other hand, your husband isn't giving you any sex, then maybe he's tired. Let him snooze, and then wake him up in a special way.

If no success, you may need some couple counseling.

But don't try to just whine and complain your way to sex. Most men (there are exceptions, I'm sure) respond very negatively to that sort of thing. They want to feel like they're seducing you, not you begging them. They would rather beg you for sex than be begged for sex.