(Posted 119 days ago)

Do's and Don'ts:

Do: take charge, take the initiative, buy books (i.e. the illustrated Kama Sutra), by DVDs (there is a great "not to porny" Better Sex video series). Some people will say talk about it - if it was that easy I am sure would have. So take action.

Don't: wait for him to change spontaneously, drop subtle hints hoping he will pick up on them,

Say This:

Then take charge. For instance, pick a time when he is lying on his back (does not have to be in bed....), start by going down on him and when he is hard straddle him. So now you have done 3 things different: 1) woman initiated sex, 2) oral sex (better than groping) and, 3) woman-on-top cowgirl sex. If you are really adventurous you can spin around so you are facing his feet and do "reverse cowgirl". Just don't lean toward his feet when you do this because most men's penises don't bend down for or at all.